01  Fantasy or Fairytale

Once a relationship comes to an end, the easy way is to face reality and just end it. This option of just ending everything is one that has been taken on to quickly in the modern day life. It has become easier for us as humans to just give up, rather than to fight for what we want. We’d rather give up and move on as it is the option with the least amount of effort to give. But then we go and say that we wish a fairytale would happen or a scene from a movie could happen to me. We have lost the ability to use our imaginations in order not to just give up, but to actually fight for what we want. Therefore using our imaginations to create that fairytale that we say we want and to make the fairytale a reality.

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Fairy tales which are created in movies, for instance:

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When a couple breaks up, they end it with a fight and separate. Then after a while the girl/guy wants to leave on a plane for some reason. But on the day of the person leaving, the other one wants to mend the relationship and get them back. This usually happens because they find out they were wrong or that they realized something. So then he/she goes to the airport after finding out when the person is leaving and tell the security this long soppy story of the person, and that they love them and don’t want them to leave, not like this. So security lets them through and he/she declares their love to the person, stopping them from leaving. Ending up in each other’s arms, kissing and saying they love one another. And like all fairy tales they live happily ever after...

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Some would say that it only happens in movies. That might be true, but let’s think out of the box for a second. People just like you and me uses their imaginations in order to write movies. So for that matter, they think stories up, just like I myself, being an author does. What I am trying to say is that humans make these stories, these fairytale scenes that we see in movies. Therefore if humans can make it up and think it, then why can’t we also act them out in real life like we do in movies?

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Why can’t we be that guy/girl who after a break up goes and fight for our loved one? Everything in this life can be fixed accept for death. Yes, I agree it hurts when you break up and end the relationship, but depending on how it ended and how you as a person feel, you can fix it. I am also a person who hasn’t done this before. The saying, “practice what you preach” is applicable to me too. But I am going to start trying this and see what happens.

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When you see a guy/girl that you like, go to that person and ask for their name and number. We are all living with rejection every single day of our lives. Being rejected by; colleagues, family, friends or even potential dates. We have become accustomed to it in the way that we have retracted ourselves from the real world, reality. We have started to live in our fantasy worlds, but yet we don’t have the ability to incorporate those two and make them one.  We can live in reality but we can bring fantasy in to make it better.

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What could happen should you ask the person for a number? They could either give the answer of yes or no. You have nothing to lose, you were okay before you asked and you can also be okay after, depends on how you prepare yourself. By preparing yourself for the worst, you can be pleasantly surprised by the outcome should it be positive. If the answer is negative, you have already prepared yourself for the worst, so the feeling of rejection will not be that bad. It all starts with the mind, not easy words to achieve, but by trying one might.

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By getting your mindset right and getting a grip on the difference between reality and fantasy and then also the ability to incorporate both of them, one can start to live the fantasies they dream about. Start taking the chances, for instance, if you broke up with someone and you decide that you still love them and you want them back. Take the chance by for instance, going to their house and singing your favourite song outside their bedroom window. Some will see it as stalking others won’t. But then you will never know what could have been unless you tried. It can only be positive or negative, but the hurt and feeling of rejection and the severity thereof depends on how you prepare yourself mentally.

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Take that fantasy movie scene that you always wish someone would do with you and do it yourself. Maybe if we start doing it, the world will see but it is possible. Why should we always hide behind our fears? If you can understand that it can be negative or positive and you prepare yourself mentally, then it could maybe just be great. By preparing yourself for the worst it doesn’t make you a negative person, it only makes you stronger. So if the negative happens, you won’t be disappointed. Should the positive happen, then you would be pleasantly surprised.

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My whole life I’ve lived to be a realistic person, yes my personality differs from others. But at the end it is what makes us unique, makes us individuals. So be yourself, be who you are and who you want to be. If you want to live out a scene in a movie, then do so. Make your own fairy tales a reality. Who knows maybe then your reality will be even better. Maybe then you can even save your relationship and live happily ever after...

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Now the above is all just my own opinion, but if you think about it, then isn’t it possible? We can make our own fairy tales become reality. We just need to start taking chances, and not just say we want to, we must take them. With the right mindset, we can achieve so much and maybe then also live a happier life and not such sad lives as we do.

02 Prayers for My Angel

I was sent on your path when you needed someone the most, when The Lord knew that you’re world was going to tumble in. For I was asked because it was known that I would be strong enough to remain till the end. Now that the end has arrived, there is no need for me...

 

Every person, every little thing, every moment, every memory has a meaning and a lesson to teach us in life. It is up to us to find out and understand what that lesson is. Not always wanting to, nor even trying to find the reason. If you’d put your mind to it, you’d actually find out what that lesson to be learned is. For after months, I have learned what was needed. I have realized what my purpose on the past few month’s journey was.

 

I was sent on your path to keep you strong, to get you to where you needed to be, the final goodbye. The last few days to be spent with your loved one, to leave with no regret, to leave behind love. May that love left behind never be forgotten, nor may it ever disappear. I got you there safely, therefore I will never regret anything about that week. For my hat is taken off to the person who hated, but then, on their death bed made peace...

 

Never to be strong enough to stay and keep you on the path destined for you... Only to fail in that, the mission for I have been sent on. To be pushed away in such a way, that giving up was the only option, never the choice but the option. One day the loved one might forgive me, for the truth will never be to far. Maybe then the mission might make sense to others.

 

For the option of giving up came very early, but for some reason I was never to take it. I was sent on your path for a reason, and that reason first had to become reality, then, the option would appear again. We were never meant to go beyond that reason, for it was not our destiny.

 

Your life is your own, your choices are too. Never did I try to change you, nor make you who you were not. I merely saw the potential and the real you, the soul within. But by powers from beyond we were not destined. My purpose was reached, my goal set from beyond. After that the pain and tears to come will only justify and give acceptance to that.

 

May the journey you find yourself on be lead by angels, may my prayers for you guide you. For you are greater than you think and make yourself believe. May you not proceed forward on this path you were lead to believe you follow, but may you proceed on the one you are destined for, the one you strayed from.

 

I send out prayers for my angel the one I fell in love with, the one I still love, the one I’d always love. The harsh words and curses sent out, to be forgiven as they were in rage, and only to harm for I felt destroyed. It became clear to me what my purpose in your life was, may this gift I possess never be taken away but appreciated, for seeing things play out before they do.

 

May these powers be used to help, may the ones around me see that it is help I offer not harm. May my prayers make you realize your potential. You are the best, and you will achieve so much in your life. May all of your dreams and wishes come true. My purpose is done, but the love developed will never be forgotten.

 

“I wish you all the best on your forward journey, the achievements, the love and prosperity. May you always stay such a perfect soul, once looks fade, the soul’s look will never fade. Forever loved...”